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Master Key Week 5 – My favorite “fix” is…

A few months ago I wrote a post on the latest take on addiction (You can check that one out here!) and that topic was actualized by last weeks Master Key webinar and really got my head spinning!

Have You ever asked Yourself why You do certain things?
Yes, I mean the things that are not particularly good for us, maybe even potentially get us into trouble or could hurt us!

I certainly have and last week on the plane I watched the movie “What the Bleep do we know”, took a break in the middle, went into a sit and… Drumroll… There it was – the answer!!!

Finally I know which peptides IĀ“ve been addicted to that have served me the worse in during my adult life – not a bad pay of for a few minutes in silence – after a few years of diligent self discovery – ok, call me a slow learner šŸ˜‰

IĀ“m deeply and habitually addicted to the feeling of getting away with it!

What “it”? You might ask… Any “it”

Some “its” are good, some are bad, some are ugly and some outright destructive, as long as I can get away with “it”, IĀ“m in the game!

Let me give You a little background (yup, might be lengthy – bear with me…):

I donĀ“t know how familiar You are with Dr Taylor Hartman and the Color CodeĀ but if You havenĀ“t heard about it, I highly recommend You check it out. Dr Hartman developed a method to determine our core motive, that is what really drives us. There are basically four different kinds of core motives that are represented by the colors red (Power), blue (Intimacy), white (peace) Ā and yellow (fun) and You can take the free test to determine Your color here!
It takes about 30-40 min and is well worth the time.
Frankly the Color Code contributed to me and my marvelous wife getting married and has done more for my own understanding of myself and my interactions with others than anything else I studied through the years!

On a CD introducing the Color Code system Dr Hartman says something to the regard of (and IĀ“m paraphrasing here):

If You are a red spouse married to a blue spouse and receive a yellow child You know that God is having a good laugh!

I used to make jokes about it not being too much fun for the yellow child either, having been born into that constellation myself.
My father was an extremely controlling red whoĀ“s physical challenges with health and inability to feel and be satisfied with his own accomplishments seriously affected the health of his color, my mother is a worry-prone blue who makes the real intimacy she craves impossible to attain due to her generally negative and worry-some approach to life.
And, no, IĀ“m not picking on my parents here, they did their best and I hold them in high regard for that. I have no idea how messed up my life would be if my family had been functional ;-), and, BTW, show me a non-dysfunctional family…

ItĀ“s just immensely liberating to know what caused the way I work and function, I donĀ“t know about You, though I think most of us struggle with feelings of “not being enough” or “not being good enough” at some point.
Without being even close to a conspiracy theorist IĀ“m convinced that this is actually (planned or by accident I donĀ“t know…) programmed into our blueprint at an early age.
You know, for example, how the teacher points out whatĀ“s “wrong” in a test and doesnĀ“t count the “right” answers, what we like to call “the red pencil syndrome”.

Anyway, knowing that this addiction developed out of a completely logical and actually (at the time) crucial need for survival makes it a lot easier to accept it and even embrace it.

Funny enough,as the insight brings the mechanism behind certain subconscious behaviors into the conscious realm it also makes it possible for “the watchman at the gate” to do his work properly. The power of that addiction on the cellular level can be broken as suddenly I have a choice that I didnĀ“t have while I didnĀ“t know there was a choice to make.
As long as something is driven by subconscious habits that we are not aware of, thereĀ“s virtually nothing we can do to break the habit, and this changes the moment we are finally willing and able to observe ourselves enough to become aware of that subconscious habit.

I donĀ“t know if I would ever have been able to see this pattern in myself if not for the exercises I have been (and still am) practicing because of the Master Key Experience. Maybe, maybe not…

What I do know is that IĀ“m filled with gratitude towards the material and especially towards myself for my commitment and dedication to pursue this journey of self discovery.
And I canĀ“t wait for the next layer of self to be revealed to me in the silence that more and more evolves into my “real” reality.

So, what is the favorite “fix” for Your cells?

Want to find out? Join the experience by leaving Your details below, theyĀ“re safe with me, I do not need to “get away” with things anymore šŸ˜‰ !

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I appreciate You!

Week 11 – Change

“It is well, however, to remember that while every effect is the result of a cause, theĀ effect in turn becomes a cause, which creates other effects, which in turn createĀ still other causes; so that when you put the law of attraction into operation youĀ must remember that you are starting a train of causation for good or otherwiseĀ which may have endless possibilities.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

IĀ“ve always had important knowledge come kind of backwards into my life, often I experienced something new and then later learned what it ment by reading about something similar or hearing it brought up in conversation.
Now IĀ“m in this remarkable place of being honored with changing one of my PPNĀ“s and IĀ“ve had the feeling that this would be necessary for quite a while now and even discussed it with my guide as well as Mark this past weekend.
Since I first did the PPN exercise with Go90Grow in spring 2012 IĀ“ve had not a shadow of a doubt the the oxygen of my soul consists of “Liberty” and “Autonomy”.
Just these last few weeks I started feeling less connected to the latter…

Monday morning it hit me:

“1. Inductive reasoning is the process of the objective mind by which we compare aĀ number of separate instances with one another until we see the common factor thatĀ gives rise to them all. Ā 2. Induction proceeds by comparison of facts; it is this method of studying natureĀ which has resulted in the discovery of a reign of law which has marked an epoch inĀ human progress.
3. It is the dividing line between superstition and intelligence; it has eliminated theĀ elements of uncertainty and caprice from men’s lives and substituted law, reason,Ā and certitude.
4. It is the “Watchman at the Gate” mentioned in a former lesson.
5. When, by virtue of this principle, the world to which the senses were accustomedĀ had been revolutionized; when the sun had been arrested in his course, theĀ apparently flat earth had been shaped into a ball and set whirling around him;Ā when the inert matter had been resolved into active elements, and the universeĀ presented itself wherever we directed the telescope and microscope, full of force,Ā motion and life; we are constrained to ask by what possible means the delicateĀ forms of organization in the midst of it are kept in order and repair.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

So, lets look at Autonomy
Merriam-Webster (fittingly enough “An Encyclopaedia Brittanica Company”) says:

  1. the quality or state of being self-governing;Ā especiallyĀ :Ā  the right ofĀ self-government
  2. self-directing freedom and especially moral independence
  3. a self-governing state
  4. the quality or state of being independent, free, and self-directing
  5. independence from the organism as a whole in the capacity of a part for growth, reactivity, or responsiveness

TheĀ blueĀ parts would refer to an individual and here are the good news hidden…

Since we moved to Cyprus over a year ago I have appropriated that sort of freedom and independence for myself.

  • 2014-12-07 14.09.57I plan my days as I please (and not to far ahead) with no need to report to or confer withĀ anyone in that regard except by my own choice as in case with my wife
  • ThereĀ“s no place I need to show up at a certain time I havenĀ“t deliberately chosen myself
  • I accept the full responsibility for my choices and live my life governed by integrity and moral values

So what basically bugged me for weeks was the feeling of striving for something that was already part of my life.
Just imagine for a moment, if You will, the power of the human mind and the material weĀ“re working with here!

In the late spring of 2012 I was struggling in NWM, frustrated with my life and just starting getting really serious with a woman I didnĀ“t feel worthy of at the time.
I stumbled onto Go90Grow, started with “Think&Grow Rich”, defined my PPNĀ“s and started working on my DMP. Got my first draftĀ rejectedĀ (yes, seriously, and rightly so – it was awful) by the Fabulous Davene, rewrote it quite a few times and finally got it straightened out enough to make it work.

Fast forward just 2,5 short years and I already incorporated one of my PPNĀ“s into my every dayfollowbliss life, IĀ“m married to that woman (my Marvelous Maria), weĀ“re happier than ever and experience this Master Key together. My business is growing and I enjoy a degree of self esteem, peace of mind and faith towards my future that I never thought possible at that day in 2012 when I typed in my CC details.

Yet, I must have had this picture in my mind. And as murky, fuzzy and indefinite it was at times, still the benevolent laws of the universe amplified it to the extent that I now live it:

“18. We are first to believe that our desire has already been fulfilled, its
accomplishment will then follow. This is a concise direction for making use of the
creative power of thought by impressing on the Universal subjective mind, the
particular thing which we desire as an already existing fact.
19. We are thus thinking on the plane of the absolute and eliminating all
consideration of conditions or limitation and are planting a seed which, if left
undisturbed, will finally germinate into external fruition.
20. To review: Inductive reasoning is the process of the objective mind, by which
we compare a number of separate instances with one another until we see the
common factor that gives rise to them all. We see people in every civilized country
on the globe, securing results by some process which they do not seem to
understand themselves, and to which they usually attach more or less mystery. Our
reason is given to us for the purpose of ascertaining the law by which these results
are accomplished.
21. The operation of this thought process is seen in those fortunate natures that
possess everything that others must acquire by toil, who never have a struggle with
conscience because they always act correctly, and can never conduct themselves
otherwise than with tact, learn everything easily, complete everything they begin
with a happy knack, live in eternal harmony with themselves, without ever
reflecting much what they do, or ever experiencing difficulty or toil.
22. The fruit of this thought is, as it were, a gift of the gods, but a gift which few as
yet realize, appreciate, or understand. The recognition of the marvelous power
which is possessed by the mind under proper conditions and the fact that this
power can be utilized, directed, and made available for the solution of every human
problem is of transcendental importance.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

And IĀ“m immensely grateful being able to help a few people refining their DMPĀ“s, returning the favor Dave did me back then and be of service to others who have their own journey in front of them.

Which again lets me experience before I learn, my new PPN “legacy”, has been growing increasingly more important in me. IĀ“m honored and humbled to re-think, re-feel and re-write my DMP to embrace the change in me and how this affects my future self.Ā SkƤrmklipp 2014-12-10 23.43.57
As a yellow my natural notion is to rush into this task and it just fills me with awe how brilliantly orchestrated this experience is as
IĀ“d already planned a solo hike this coming weekend which now presents itself us the perfect opportunity to give this act of service to my future self the attention it needs.

Mahalo for taking the time to read this post, I appreciate You!