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Master Key Week 1.2 – Definiteness of Purpose

And so week 1 of The Master Key Experience 2015 nears its end and most new members are getting their DMP’s back from their guides with comments and corrections.

Most drafts I critiqued this week were actuall pretty awesome, still they often go back to the member with lots of comments and I can understand that for some the way to a finalized DMP can feel very long and dark.

So let me start with sharing the first draft I submitted in March 2012 going through the Go90Grow Think and Grow Rich course:

“Being a living Example of Health and Abundance, roaming the World at my Leisure. Playing, resting, teaching and working on my own terms, inspiring and educating my fellow man to live healthier life in Freedom and Abundance, pursuing their Dreams and fulfilling their Purposes.”

Everyone can see that this doesn’t give Subby much meat to work with ūüėČ, and the critique I got back was accordingly:

Include these things in your DMP:
1. Emotionalize your DMP and put it in the first person….(like this):
¬† (Example:¬†I’m very excited to be taking my 2 kids to Paris, France on or before Dec. 31, 2014.)
2. Include “on or before” dates that you want to achieve the things you mention.
3.¬†Include what you are willing to give up to attain it….
4.¬†You need to include more details (with emotion) to your DMP….
  When would you like to take your first trip?
  Where in the world would you like to go?
  How would that make you feel?
  How much money would it take to give you the liberty you desire?
  When would you like to have that money? (on or before date)

Needless to say I had to put some serious work into this and I’m eternally grateful for the help and guidance I received from Kathy and Davene.

To be candied with you I’ve rewritten my DMP several times during the last years as new
insights or manifesting parts of it made changes necessary. And I’m in the process of refining it
again!
A DMP is a living document that evolves together with us!

Fast forward three and a half year…
  • In April 2013 the Marvelous Maria and I visited Kauai for the first time
  • September 28th 2013 we moved from Sweden to Cyprus
  • April 11th 2014 I married Maria, the girl of my dreams
  • May 2014 we’re back on Kauai for 4 weeks, honeymoon
  • We get invited to take part in the manifestation of Dave&Marks DMP to kayak the Napali coast, amazing experience
  • October 2014 I was invited to help with DMP’s in Go90Grow and now in 2015 I’m a certified guide for the Master Key Experience
  • We’ve been traveling quite a bit, visiting Barcelona, Halkidiki, Athens, Corinth, Phuket, Berlin, Kopaonik, Belgrade, Budapest
  • Did a road trip from Stockholm to Narvik and back
  • Spent five weeks driving around the S/W USA
  • Hiked the mountain range in north Sweden and Norway for 28 consecutive days
  • Visited Kauai for the third time in 2015
  • ……

And most importantly met so many magnificent people and developed deep and valuable friendships (you know who you are and I love you all)!

I didn’t list all those things to boast but rather to present an idea of what happens when we start focusing on what we really want out of life. I’m sure you figured out that traveling is a biggy for me, though most of the things on the list above I wasn’t even aware that I wanted when I wrote that first DMP draft in 2012.

So, some of you might feel you don’t know what you want. Or how to put it within 400 words, in present tense and positive language.
Maybe there is some underlying fear, it sure was like that for me…
What if it doesn’t work? What if I put my faith in this and get disappointed?

Or what if it turns out somewhat like this:

Well, I promise you this:
Deep down you know exactly what you really want, even if you don’t know that you know.
And, by using the material, doing the exercises and spend time with yourself in silence every day you can have it!

I always keep my promises ūüėÄ

So, if you’re a new member get on the webinars, do the work and use the hand on help from your guide. And if you’re not in the course yet, fill out the form below and let us invite you to join us next year!

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Week 1 – Educing Beauty

So the Master Key Experience had once again started and new members are commencing on their greatest journey, the journey of self discovery.
And one of the first steps is to write a DMP (Definite Major Purpose), what a wonderful task to engage in. Writing out the future we intend and plan for ourselves for most people is both exciting and a little intimidating. And we have many questions!

What if I get it wrong?
How can I know my future?
Do I even know what I want?

Please let me share this short video I made for new members and also for people who are not yet in the Master Key as a few minutes of encouragement:

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Finally back on the grid – ready, set, GO!!!

First let me say that this post is really long over due – I just could¬īt bring myself to write anything after we got back from the hike. It was unexplainable even to myself as I normally have no resistance at all to writing and usually just get it done without any major effort.

So, let¬īs take this back a step or two!

I¬īve been hiking my entire adult life, spending time in nature has always been a sanctuary for me – a way to refresh my soul and charge my being with new energy and all the time I have been feeling very “at home” during my excursions.

The difference this time was threefold (not mentioning having the privilege of sharing the experience with Maria):

  • the length of time spent in nature – almost double as long as any preceding experience
  • for the first time I felt that I was really¬†living the experience, not merely using the break from ordinary life as a means for survival
  • I had been through the Master Key Experience and was more connected with myself than ever before

The good news here are that I enjoyed every bit of the hike more than I can remember ever have enjoyed my previous ones. I wasn¬īt even annoyed be the uncontrollable things like weather, bugs, etc but rather accepted them and did what I could to be comfortable, using the law of substitution and the law of growth and¬†choose to focus on what was extraordinary wonderful in each situation. And there was plenty ;-)!

We had some absolutely fantastic experiences in the wild, from beautiful hiking days in marvelous weather conditions to the crossing of mountain passes that are only possible under the right conditions. We met quite a few really nice people, though we spent most of the time alone, just the two of us. Conversations came up more sparingly the longer we¬īd been out there, spending time together, sharing the experience and retreating into our own minds and thoughts seemed to be entirely sufficient and we walked a lot in silence.

Every day was an adventure of sorts, new ground to break, rivers to cross, mountains to climb and weather conditions to handle. Over time our packs became increasingly easier to carry which in turned opened for more challenging trips. At the start Maria¬īs backpack weighted 28kg (60lbs) and mine 32kg (70lbs), frankly more than just a tad to heavy… Four weeks later Maria¬īs was at 13kg and mine 18kg, a considerable difference.

And, the best of it all, after virtually spending time together 24/7 for 28 straight days my marvelous wife and I had come even closer to each other and were getting along wonderfully,¬†or better than that, during the entire trip – how¬īs that for being soul mates?!

And now You¬īd expect somebody news, right?

Well, there aren¬īt any – at least not in the sense of the word “bad”! Definitely different, though ūüėÄ

Frankly, this trip really messed with my sense of being and I didn¬īt even notice until we were back in Stockholm. Out there in the wild I experienced a profound sense of
self and natural being, it became obvious that this is the kind of life I am hpeople-say-that-what-were-all-seeking-is-a-meaning-for-life-joseph-campbellard wired for and the cement kept chipping away. On a subconscious level I must have started questioning my entire life style and how dependent I thought I was on being present online, reachable, visible on social media etc and it occurred to me that living takes place in the here, the now and ph
ysically – not then, there and digitally.
Of course I knew that on an intellectual level – now it just hit me emotional
ly…

 

And the result was a pretty serious cultural and emotional shock when I came back, I basically panicked and in many ways withdrew from the world to find ways to cope. Only finding the strength to do a minimun online, like sending out a few emails about the MK launch etc.

As my good friend and mentor Mark J likes to say: “You gotta love irony!”

Here I am after completing the Master Key Experience, studying to be a certified guide and finally coming full circle for my own life. More or less shredding my DMP, questioning my PPN¬īs and returning to the sit once again with the question “What do I want?”
Just from a slightly different angle – looking not only to design my future life for my future self but also defining what my life needs to look like right now to give myself the best possible circumstances to eddies, evolve and develop my future self.

And that¬īs were I stand today, rewriting my DMP to include new insights, designing my days to fit my needs and so far I¬īve added just a few bullet points to my plan of action:

  • spend an hour or more outside daily, every day
  • schedule time for fun and physical activities between work sessions and keep work short and focused
  • write one post or more every week from my heart

Gratefully looking forward to go through the Master Key once more and that I can serve as a guide to help others take part in the experience. I hope to see You on the webinars and in the alliances, if not this year then one of the following!

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Sneak peek at the Live Event

The Master Key Experience Live Event 2015 proved to be life changing experience for everyone there, so many of us finally connected the last dots defining or refining our definiteness of purpose.
Being one of around 60 individuals leaving the event with a stronger feeling of self and purpose was an awesome experience and with the greater number of guides next launch the event 2016 is even more impactful РYou have the chance to see for Yourself in July 2016!

Take a few minutes, check out the short video below and tell us what You think!

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Week 16 – To Believe or not to Believe…

Kindness

This week we¬īre focusing on kindness in the Master Key Experience, kindness that we observe around us and also our own kindness to others.
The effects are remarkable, already after a few days I felt more harmonious, happy and content with my life!
Of course it seems obvious now that this resource for happiness was always there for the taking, I just did not consider it until suggested in the MK.
I hadn¬īt thought of it, it was not part of my beliefs which leads us to the main topic of this post….
I remember a question I read many years ago in a blog post by Randy Gage:

“Does this belief serve me?”

As my life at the time was far from where I wanted it to be, I know the answer was: NO!!!

Challenges:

  1. I didn¬īt know what belief didn¬īt serve me…belief3
  2. I didn¬īt know what belief would serve me…
  3. If I had I woulnd¬īt have known how to change it…

That¬īs kinda defines the term tough luck…

Years later I took the¬†Go90Grow¬†course and in¬†the “Think & Grow Rich” part of it I learned how a THOUGHT¬†charged by FEELING create a BELIEF that causes an ACTION which produces a RESULT

BLUEPRINT

So this brought up as many questions as there were given answers:

  1. What results do I strive for?
  2. What actions are necessary to perform to produce those results?
  3. What beliefs do I need to create that will trigger the necessary actions?
  4. What feelings need to charge my thoughts?
  5. What thoughts do I need to entertain?

And that helped a lot!

So where do I go with this?Always do_

Well, there is probably as many answers to that question as there are people reading this blog post. Everyone has, or at least should have, different answers to the questions above and that goes for the last one as well.

The reason for that is that we have to DECIDE!!!

Decide what we want! What we need to do to get it! What we have to give up! What we are willing to give up to reach our dream! Decide what feelings we want to feel, what emotions we want to experience!

Remember: DMP + PMA + WPOA + MMA

And then… Determine what is the ¬†discrepancy between where we are and where we want to be!

“The difference between my current reality and my¬†vision is defined by the gap between the person I am and the person I am becoming!”

And the gap can only be closed by thoughts, which means we are in total control of closing it!!!

“17. Therefore, to control thought is to control circumstances, conditions,
environment, and destiny.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System”, Part 16

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So lets go about that:

“18. How then are we to control thought; what is the process? To think is to create a
thought, but the result of the thought will depend upon its form, its quality and its
vitality.
19. The form will depend upon the mental images from which it emanates; this will
depend upon the depth of the impression, the predominance of the idea, the clarity
of the vision, the boldness of the image.
20. The quality depends upon its substance, and this depends upon the material of
which the mind is composed; if this material has been woven from thoughts of
vigor, strength, courage, determination, the thought will possess these qualities.
21. And finally, the vitality depends upon the feeling with which the thought is
impregnated. If the thought is constructive, it will possess vitality; it will have life,
it will grow, develop, expand, it will be creative; it will attract to itself everything
necessary for its complete development.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System”, Part 16

So let us connect back to “belief”:

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(click on the pic for expanded view)

What this tells us is that¬†the word stems from the verb “leubh”:¬†to care, desire, like, love(!)

So do You LOVE Your DMP???

Of course You do!!!

And that¬īs all it takes, remember:
a THOUGHT charged by FEELING create a BELIEF that causes an ACTION which produces a RESULT

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Week 11 – Change

“It is well, however, to remember that while every effect is the result of a cause, the¬†effect in turn becomes a cause, which creates other effects, which in turn create¬†still other causes; so that when you put the law of attraction into operation you¬†must remember that you are starting a train of causation for good or otherwise¬†which may have endless possibilities.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

I¬īve always had important knowledge come kind of backwards into my life, often I experienced something new and then later learned what it ment by reading about something similar or hearing it brought up in conversation.
Now I¬īm in this remarkable place of being honored with changing one of my PPN¬īs and I¬īve had the feeling that this would be necessary for quite a while now and even discussed it with my guide as well as Mark this past weekend.
Since I first did the PPN exercise with Go90Grow in spring 2012 I¬īve had not a shadow of a doubt the the oxygen of my soul consists of “Liberty” and “Autonomy”.
Just these last few weeks I started feeling less connected to the latter…

Monday morning it hit me:

“1. Inductive reasoning is the process of the objective mind by which we compare a¬†number of separate instances with one another until we see the common factor that¬†gives rise to them all. ¬†2. Induction proceeds by comparison of facts; it is this method of studying nature¬†which has resulted in the discovery of a reign of law which has marked an epoch in¬†human progress.
3. It is the dividing line between superstition and intelligence; it has eliminated the¬†elements of uncertainty and caprice from men’s lives and substituted law, reason,¬†and certitude.
4. It is the “Watchman at the Gate” mentioned in a former lesson.
5. When, by virtue of this principle, the world to which the senses were accustomed¬†had been revolutionized; when the sun had been arrested in his course, the¬†apparently flat earth had been shaped into a ball and set whirling around him;¬†when the inert matter had been resolved into active elements, and the universe¬†presented itself wherever we directed the telescope and microscope, full of force,¬†motion and life; we are constrained to ask by what possible means the delicate¬†forms of organization in the midst of it are kept in order and repair.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

So, lets look at Autonomy
Merriam-Webster (fittingly enough “An Encyclopaedia Brittanica Company”) says:

  1. the quality or state of being self-governing; especially :  the right of self-government
  2. self-directing freedom and especially moral independence
  3. a self-governing state
  4. the quality or state of being independent, free, and self-directing
  5. independence from the organism as a whole in the capacity of a part for growth, reactivity, or responsiveness

The¬†blue¬†parts would refer to an individual and here are the good news hidden…

Since we moved to Cyprus over a year ago I have appropriated that sort of freedom and independence for myself.

  • 2014-12-07 14.09.57I plan my days as I please (and not to far ahead) with no need to report to or confer with¬†anyone in that regard except by my own choice as in case with my wife
  • There¬īs no place I need to show up at a certain time I haven¬īt deliberately chosen myself
  • I accept the full responsibility for my choices and live my life governed by integrity and moral values

So what basically bugged me for weeks was the feeling of striving for something that was already part of my life.
Just imagine for a moment, if You will, the power of the human mind and the material we¬īre working with here!

In the late spring of 2012 I was struggling in NWM, frustrated with my life and just starting getting really serious with a woman I didn¬īt feel worthy of at the time.
I stumbled onto Go90Grow, started with “Think&Grow Rich”, defined my PPN¬īs and started working on my DMP. Got my first draft¬†rejected¬†(yes, seriously, and rightly so – it was awful) by the Fabulous Davene, rewrote it quite a few times and finally got it straightened out enough to make it work.

Fast forward just 2,5 short years and I already incorporated one of my PPN¬īs into my every dayfollowbliss life, I¬īm married to that woman (my Marvelous Maria), we¬īre happier than ever and experience this Master Key together. My business is growing and I enjoy a degree of self esteem, peace of mind and faith towards my future that I never thought possible at that day in 2012 when I typed in my CC details.

Yet, I must have had this picture in my mind. And as murky, fuzzy and indefinite it was at times, still the benevolent laws of the universe amplified it to the extent that I now live it:

“18. We are first to believe that our desire has already been fulfilled, its
accomplishment will then follow. This is a concise direction for making use of the
creative power of thought by impressing on the Universal subjective mind, the
particular thing which we desire as an already existing fact.
19. We are thus thinking on the plane of the absolute and eliminating all
consideration of conditions or limitation and are planting a seed which, if left
undisturbed, will finally germinate into external fruition.
20. To review: Inductive reasoning is the process of the objective mind, by which
we compare a number of separate instances with one another until we see the
common factor that gives rise to them all. We see people in every civilized country
on the globe, securing results by some process which they do not seem to
understand themselves, and to which they usually attach more or less mystery. Our
reason is given to us for the purpose of ascertaining the law by which these results
are accomplished.
21. The operation of this thought process is seen in those fortunate natures that
possess everything that others must acquire by toil, who never have a struggle with
conscience because they always act correctly, and can never conduct themselves
otherwise than with tact, learn everything easily, complete everything they begin
with a happy knack, live in eternal harmony with themselves, without ever
reflecting much what they do, or ever experiencing difficulty or toil.
22. The fruit of this thought is, as it were, a gift of the gods, but a gift which few as
yet realize, appreciate, or understand. The recognition of the marvelous power
which is possessed by the mind under proper conditions and the fact that this
power can be utilized, directed, and made available for the solution of every human
problem is of transcendental importance.”
Charles Haanel, “The Master Key System” Part 11

And I¬īm immensely grateful being able to help a few people refining their DMP¬īs, returning the favor Dave did me back then and be of service to others who have their own journey in front of them.

Which again lets me experience before I learn, my new PPN “legacy”, has been growing increasingly more important in me. I¬īm honored and humbled to re-think, re-feel and re-write my DMP to embrace the change in me and how this affects my future self.¬†Sk√§rmklipp 2014-12-10 23.43.57
As a yellow my natural notion is to rush into this task and it just fills me with awe how brilliantly orchestrated this experience is as
I¬īd already planned a solo hike this coming weekend which now presents itself us the perfect opportunity to give this act of service to my future self the attention it needs.

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